Book Review: “Million Dollar Habits” by Stellan Moreira

“Million Dollar Habits” by Stellan Moreira is an inspirational and motivating guide that encourages readers to take charge of their lives, embrace new experiences, and strive for success. Moreira’s book is a powerful reminder that we have the ability to carve our own destinies and achieve our wildest dreams.

One of the key takeaways from this book is the idea of trying something new every day. Moreira emphasizes the importance of breaking out of our comfort zones and embracing new challenges. This simple yet profound concept serves as a catalyst for personal growth and leads to a life filled with excitement and fulfillment.

Moreira’s message is clear: life is meant to be lived to the fullest. He reminds readers that every moment is an opportunity to create positive habits that will lead to success. Whether it’s in our personal or professional lives, Moreira’s guidance on cultivating million-dollar habits is both practical and inspiring.

Chapter 13, titled “Planning for Success,” stands out as a gem in this book. Moreira provides readers with actionable steps and strategies for setting and achieving their goals. From setting clear objectives to creating a roadmap for success, this chapter serves as a valuable resource for anyone looking to turn their dreams into reality.

What sets “Million Dollar Habits” apart is Moreira’s genuine enthusiasm for helping others succeed. His writing is infused with passion and a sense of purpose, making it easy for readers to connect with his message. The book is not only a source of motivation but also a practical guide for those who are ready to take the reins of their destiny.

In conclusion, “Million Dollar Habits” is a must-read for anyone seeking inspiration, guidance, and practical advice for creating a life of purpose and achievement. Stellan Moreira’s book serves as a powerful reminder that we have the power to shape our own destinies, and with the right habits and mindset, we can reach the heights of success. Whether you’re looking to transform your personal or professional life, this book offers valuable insights and a roadmap to living life to the fullest and achieving your dreams.

Journaling Mindfulness

Mindfulness (noun): the quality or state of being conscious or aware; Intention to cultivate awareness of mind body and spirit

When I say ‘journaling mindfulness’, I am referring to practicing habits in writing and tracking that will help someone incorporate mindfulness into their daily routine. Journaling mindfulness involves the mind body and spirit: being aware of your thoughts, physical being, and emotions. My 2021 planning routine consists of several methods for journaling mindfulness. Each method–habit trackers, vision boards, and daily affirmations—can be used be used independently or simultaneously to cultivate a more mindful you.

Habit Trackers

Tracking healthy habits, such as exercise and nutrition, can help you live a healthier life. By creating and sticking to a tracking system, you can build consistency and develop habits due to regular tendency or practice. Once an action becomes a regular habit, it can have a positive effect on your overall mindfulness (or awareness).

Let us consider an example. Drinking 64 ounces of water is often chosen as a daily healthy habit worth tracking. Drinking enough water can help your body carry nutrients and oxygen to your cells, stabilize your heartbeat, and protect your organs and tissues. Mentally, adequate hydration is also known to calm the mind and curb anxiety. Once this habit has been built, you become more and more aware of what a hydrated body feels like. You may have more energy. Your hair and nails may be growing at an accelerated rate. You may feel less hungry and more at ease. On the other hand, you also become more aware of what a dehydrated body feels like: irritable, snacky, tired, anxious. Your consistency led to heightened awareness. Yay, you!

Now that I have sold you on using habit tracking to journal mindfulness, it is time to put purpose to practice! Deciding what items to track on your habit tracker can be tricky. Ultimately, you want to think of what will spark the most joy for you or have the biggest impact on your overarching goals. If your goal is to have the energy to spend quality time with your loved ones each day, then tracking hours of sleep may be on your tracker. If your goal is to express your creativity more, daily journaling or creation may be a habit you track. Because I wanted to focus on building mindfulness this year, I decided to create two ‘year in pixel’ trackers—one for fitness and one for mindfulness. My fitness tracker records the workout I do each day—from kickboxing to hiking. My mindfulness tracker keeps track of mental strength (journaling, reading, yoga, and meditation). Together, I call these my Mind Body Spirit (MBS) Trackers.

There are only two rules when in comes to habit trackers: choose habits that serve you and track them consistently. So many great templates are available for free. Choose one that works for you (or create your own) and have fun with it!

Vision Boards

Does the idea of daily of weekly tracking make you panic? No worries! There are other ways to journal mindfulness that are less intimidating for those who would rather go with the flow. How does a method that can be completed once a year (or even less!) sound? The next method for journaling mindfulness is creating a vision board. A dream board or vision board is a collage of images and pictures that represent one’s dreams and desires, designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation.

By creating a vision board, one can practice mindfulness by becoming more aware of his or her thoughts. This is achieved through visualization. When you put your goals on paper in a visual format, it can help you achieve them. Studies show that mental practices, including visualization, can increase motivation, confidence, and motor performance by keeping positive thoughts at the forefront of your mind.

Use three easy steps to create an effective vision board. First, take a moment reflect on what goals are most important to you. These can be referred to as your ‘Big Rocks’. Your Big Rocks are your priorities—the tasks, projects, and goals that you most want to tend and accomplish. Once you have created a list of the things you want to manifest, you are done with the most difficult step. Next, you piece together a visual representation of this list using photos, artwork, words, and phrases. Bring your vision to life on the page (or screen!). I currently have three vision boards in my home: one large poster that visualizes my life vision, one collage for my dream home vision, and another page in my planner that summarizes the year I envision for 2021 . The third and final step to creating an effective vision board is to place your vision board where you will see it regularly—on your nightstand, in your home office, or even by your TV. Digital vision boards also make great desktop backgrounds on your computer. The key is to look at your vision board as often as possible to heighten your awareness of these long-term goals and wants.

Daily Affirmations

My third method for journaling mindfulness is to record daily affirmations. Affirmations are short, powerful statements that allow you to consciously control your thoughts. Affirmations firmly declare a positive thought and should be assertively stated as a truth. To write an affirmation, begin with “I am” and use present tense. The statements should also be brief and specific. This year, I have chosen to focus on three affirmations:

  • I am successful at everything that I do.
  • I am healthy and wealthy.
  • I am beautiful inside and out.

To record these affirmations, I keep a mindset journal (or affirmation journal). This journal lives on my nightstand and has been incorporated into my evening routine. Before bed, I briefly journal an entry or scribe my three affirmations. After a week of entries, I decorate the page with quotes and images that resonate with me [pictured below]. By regularly recording affirmations, one becomes more aware of when they are embracing positive thoughts and repelling negative ones.

By practicing mindfulness, one can lessen stress, increase happiness and creativity, and strengthen memory and sleep. You are able to create a life you love and be more intentional with your thoughts and actions. After using these mindfulness journaling methods for only two months, I have had noticeably better sleep (with more vivid dreams), gained confidence in my leadership position at work, and feel more positive overall. I hope you have enjoyed reading my tips and would love to hear how you plan on journaling mindfulness this year.

CVC Goal Setting Workshop Pt. 1: Vision

Goal Setting Workshop Pt. 1: Vision

Many people set goals, but are they setting the right goals? The first workshop in the Cristal Victoria Consulting (CVC) series is Goal Setting Part 1: Vision Workshop. This workshop guides individuals in setting SMART end goals that are personalized to get them where they want to be.

My Reality

The workshop begins by looking into the past. The My Reality activities encourage individuals to celebrate their past achievements and identify the action steps that led them to these successes. This practice unveils positive patterns in behavior that will prove helpful when creating end goals later in the workshop. Next, individuals rate each component of their life from 1-10 with the Lifestyle Evaluation tool. This tool includes the following categories:

Career & Professional DevelopmentSpiritual & Personal Development
Romantic Relationship(s)Friends & Family
Health & WellnessWealth & Finances
Home or Physical SpaceJoy & Recreation

By rating each category separately, one can easily identify the aspects of their life that need the most tending.  The lowest rated categories may be flagged as areas of improvement when writing end goals. Conversely, highly rated categories could be a point if interest for those who want to keep the momentum going in their strongest areas.

My Legacy

After looking into the past, the Vision Workshop focuses on the distant future. What legacy do you want to leave behind? How do you want to be remembered? What do you want your biggest achievements in life to be? These are some of the questions explored in the My Legacy portion of the workshop. Individuals visualize the final chapters of their life and analyze overarching themes that surface in the process. These themes are used to link the past and present with the future when writing end goals.

My Destiny

Finally, the Vision Workshop turns to the present. Inspired by the Japanese concept of Ikigai, having a direction or purpose in life, the final component of the workshop introduces the Destiny Map tool. The Destiny Map helps individuals find connections between their strengths and passions. Once these connections are made, individuals use their Destiny Map, Lifestyle Evaluation, and other tools to create SMART end goals that exciting, focused, and rooted in what matters most.

Cristal Victoria Consulting workshops are coming to Southern Nevada in August 2021, with virtual workshops to follow. Want to reach your end goal with CVC? Follow @cristalvictoria on Instagram for more tips and tricks and stay tuned for CVC digital download bundles—including all the tools mentioned here– on sale this fall at cristalvictoriaconsulting.com.

Book Review: “Year of YES” by Shonda Rhimes

“Year of Yes” by Shonda Rhimes is a captivating and empowering memoir that resonates deeply with anyone on a journey to reclaim their true self and design a life they love. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, Rhimes takes readers on her transformative year-long adventure of saying “yes” to opportunities, experiences, and, ultimately, to herself.

Rhimes’s poignant words, “Losing yourself does not happen all at once. Losing yourself happens one ‘no’ at a time,” serve as the book’s poignant rallying cry. It’s a reminder that self-discovery and personal growth often begin with a single affirmative choice. In this case, it was Rhimes’s decision to step out of her comfort zone and embrace the power of “yes” that set her on a path of rediscovery.

Throughout the book, Rhimes skillfully connects her “Year of Yes” to the broader concept of designing a life you love and living your best life. She shows that by shedding the fear of the unknown and embracing new challenges, we can rewrite the narratives that have held us back. Rhimes’s journey serves as a powerful example of how embracing opportunities, even when they seem daunting, can lead to personal and professional fulfillment.

“Year of Yes” is more than just a memoir; it’s an invitation to readers to reflect on their own lives and consider where they might be saying “no” when they should be saying “yes.” It encourages us to question the status quo, confront our fears, and step into the unknown with confidence.

In a world often dominated by negativity and self-doubt, Rhimes’s book serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration. It reminds us that transformation is possible, and that with each “yes,” we have the potential to reclaim our true selves and design a life filled with joy, purpose, and authenticity.

In conclusion, “Year of Yes” is a compelling and thought-provoking read that challenges us to reevaluate the choices we make in our lives. Shonda Rhimes’s journey of self-discovery and her commitment to saying “yes” provide a powerful blueprint for anyone seeking to break free from complacency, rediscover their passions, and live their best life. This book is a testament to the transformative power of embracing the unknown and serves as a reminder that, ultimately, the most important “yes” we can say is to ourselves.

Back to School Organization

Back to School season is in full swing! The start of the school years means everyone gets to take part in the joy of learning; however, it also means a slew of extra responsibilities are on the horizon, depending on your role: juggling schedules, packing lunches, balancing extracurricular activities, overseeing homework, grading papers, writing lesson plans, studying for exams…the list goes on! During this busy time, it is important to set yourself up for success. This can be achieved through thoughtful organization. Here are five back to school organizational tips that can be used by students, parents, and teachers alike to help you feel ready to take on the new academic year!

1. Archive Last Year’s Materials 

Tip: Keep your labels consistent. You can use “SY2021,” “X Grade,” or “2020-2021” to label any folders or binders from the previous school year. 

Out with the old, and in with the new! Although you may feel tempted to use every page of your old notebooks, starting fresh will help you keep your new school materials in one place. One benefit of organization is knowing where everything is at all times. To accomplish this, gather and archive last year’s materials and purchase fresh ones to start anew. Label the notebooks, binders, and computer files that you wish to keep from last year. You can invest in a handheld label maker or use post-it notes, stickers, or tape to mark them. Then, store old materials on a shelf and/or flash drive to keep them accessible but out of the way. 

2. Invest in an Academic Planner

Did you know that not all planners are tied to the ‘January through December’ calendar year? You also have the option of purchasing a paper or digital planner that is based on the academic year. Academic planners start in July or August and end the summer of the following year so an entire school year can be planned in one book. This type of planner is perfect for students, teachers, or parents with school-aged children to stay organized. 

Tip: Not a pen and paper person? Digital planners can be downloaded straight to a tablet or laptop for little to no cost. 

3. Add Important Dates to a Yearly Calendar

Before the school year begins, add all important school dates and holidays to your planner or calendar. Schools usually will provide a ‘year at a glance’ calendar that includes all major school dates to families over the summer or during the first week of school. To ensure these dates do not sneak up on you or pass you by, write them all down (even if they are months away). Not only will this help you better commit the dates to memory, but you will also be glad that you don’t need to go back each month to add them later. 

Tip: After adding important school dates to the calendar, take time to pencil in any other family vacations, doctor’s appointments, etc. that are coming up. The more dates that are frontloaded, the better. 

4. Develop a Color-Coding System

If you are a student with various courses (or a parent with multiple school-aged children) adopting a color-coding system to distinguish school materials from one another may be a good organizational tool for you. You could also incorporate this tip with tips 1-3. For example, a student with four courses could use blue for social sciences, green for math, red for reading/ELA, and orange for art courses in their system. This student could use these same colors to create labels when archiving last year’s school materials or when highlighting course assignments and important dates on his or her calendar and academic planner. It all ties together and makes everything easy to track. 

Tip: Teachers with multiple sections or student groups can also use color coding in their classroom to keep assignments and handouts organized throughout the school year. 

5. Set Up your Ideal Week

Finally, mapping out your ideal week is another tip that can be used to stay organized during back-to-school season. For middle school, high school, and college students and teachers, this should be updated semesterly as course schedules change. Student athletes can also make updates as their sport seasons begin and end. 

So, how do you map out an ideal week? Use an undated, hourly, weekly schedule. Block out class times, work hours, practices, and any other regular, recurring meetings or appointments. This is also a great opportunity to block out study time for courses, homework time, and even weekly planning time. 

Once complete, this visualization tool allows students, teachers, and parents to better prioritize and plan their time when additional or unexpected projects, events, or tasks need to be added to their schedule.  

Tip: For families with multiple school-aged children, empower your students to complete their own weekly schedule. Completing this task instills valuable time management skills. 

There you have it! Five easy tips to help you tackle back to school season. For more organizational tips and tricks, follow @cristalvictoria on Instagram or visit cristalvictoriaconsulting.com. 

Book Review: ‘Upstream’ by Dan Heath

“Upstream” by Dan Heath is a game-changer in the realm of personal development and societal progress. In this thought-provoking book, Heath explores the concept of upstream thinking, unraveling its potential to transform our lives and the world around us. With a blend of insightful anecdotes, research, and practical wisdom, Heath masterfully guides readers through the terrain of proactive problem-solving and systems change.

At its core, upstream thinking is about shifting our focus from merely reacting to problems as they arise to actively preventing them. As Heath eloquently puts it, “When you spend years responding to problems, you can sometimes overlook the fact that you could be preventing them.” This statement encapsulates the essence of the book: the idea that we often find ourselves caught up in a never-ending cycle of firefighting without realizing that we have the power to extinguish the flames at their source.

Heath’s extensive research and endless interviews provided engaging stories and examples throughout the book. One of my favorites was learning how Norway offers new parents “upstream” benefits. This clever anecdote illustrates the practical advantages of a society that invests in preventive measures and systems that support its citizens. It serves as a compelling reminder of what can be achieved when we prioritize upstream thinking on a larger scale. Not to mention, it made me want to pack my bags and move!

Heath’s exploration of the four barriers to upstream thinking in the first section of the book (Chapters 1-4) is particularly enlightening. These barriers—problem blindness, lack of ownership, tunneling, and misplaced accountability—are all too familiar in our daily lives. By identifying and dissecting these obstacles, Heath equips readers with the tools to recognize and overcome them in their personal and professional spheres.

The heart of the book lies in Heath’s definition of systems change: “The endgame is to eliminate the need for courage, to render it unnecessary because it has forced change within the system. Success comes when the right things happen by default—not because of individual passion or heroism.” This is a profound concept that challenges the prevailing notion of change as a heroic endeavor. Instead, it calls for a strategic, long-term approach where our systems themselves become agents of positive transformation.

Heath presents numerous compelling case studies throughout the book, showcasing how upstream thinking has yielded remarkable results in diverse contexts, from healthcare to criminal justice. These real-world examples serve as inspiring evidence of the potential impact of upstream thinking on a grand scale.

“Upstream” isn’t just a book about identifying problems; it’s a manual for taking action and effecting change. Heath’s message is clear: to make genuine progress in our lives and in society, we must embrace upstream thinking. By addressing root causes, changing systems, and fostering a culture of prevention, we can create a world where many problems are averted before they ever surface.

In conclusion, Dan Heath’s “Upstream” is an exceptional book that challenges us to rethink our approach to problem-solving and personal development. It offers a compelling vision of a world where proactive thinking and systems change lead to lasting progress. As we navigate our own lives and set goals, Heath’s insights into upstream thinking can serve as a guiding light, inspiring us to be architects of positive change and champions of a brighter future. Every page of this book brims with wisdom, making it a must-read for anyone seeking to make a meaningful impact in their own life and the world at large.